Long Lasting Relationships...^^

Long Lasting Relationships...^^

 
This is kinda like an intermezzo between all the stuff that is goin' on in my life. A couple days ago I talked to my fren, and from this conversation I found sumthin' interesting from it...so I'll write it down here.... (I'll continue wit my daily life this weekend...) Here goes the story...

To tell y'all da truth.. I've never been in a relationship before, but umm I've learned sumthin' from my friend, and that fren of mine is a guy! Amazing to see what he said 'bout his relationship... Hope you and your gal last long 'til u're married and 4eva!! He's been in this relationship for 2 years already, it's not so long compared 2 some ppl I know. But for a guy like him, that's long for sure.

I asked him, "How come you can last that long and it's still goin' on? While at your age, ppl usually still play around and keep on changing partners."

He said, "The secret is the 3 P's and 1 S!"->that's for the Indonesian version

I said, "What's that?"

He said, "Percaya, Perhatian, Pengertian, Sayang..."
Which means Trust, Attention, Understanding, Care...

It came out of the mouth of my fren who is a guy and 2 years younger than me.... So in a relationship you should Trust your loved one no matter the distance between the two of you and no matter what happens, you should give Attention to your loved one so he/she feels that you love him/her, you should try to Understand your loved one because you are the one they expect to Understand when the world is turning its back on him/her, and last you should Care for your loved one wholly and accepting & loving him/her the way he/she is without trying to change him/her... (",)